Can you put control arm bushings from an E36 m3 on a ti? The reason I ask is that a friend has some he is not going to use and my gf's ti needs them done. I just wanted to make sure they were the same size/fitment. Thanks.

Yes, the front control arm bushings fit. I have 1996+ ones one my car and I like them a lot. There was an immediately difference (very positive) in steering feel. It becomes much more direct and firm. IIRC, the 1996+ ones are centered, so it doesn't mess with the geometry at all. The 1995 ones are offset, which will change the geometry.