Where should i get it done, where they won't do a bad job?
Does someone want to help me do it? or have access to a lift?

im in bellevue in the lake hills area, just north of eastgate

oil changes are really easy man. just go to autozone/schucks/wherever, and buy some 20 dollar jack stands and thats all you need for jacking up your car. takes about 20 minutes to do it. link to show you how: http://www.pelicanparts.com/bmw/techarticles/E36-Oil-Change/E36-Oil-Change.htm