Refuses to light up i'm pretty sure its the circuit cause i tried the bad one on the other side and it lights up. So anybody know any diy to fix this?

BTW. My cigarette burner also does not light up but if i tap it hard enough it lights up haha.

so have you checked the bulb

Refuses to light up i'm pretty sure its the circuit cause i tried the bad one on the other side and it lights up.

I tried it on the other side.

ah sorry i misread. then next thing to check is the fuse

It doesn't light up, but it works? Try checking the wiring under the shift lever area (pry it out). Maybe something broke. Usually if it doesn't light up, it's either a bad bulb, or your power window button has been disabled. But if it works, it's not the power window button, and you already said it wasn't the bulb. Bit of an oddity.

sings of the confort relay going bad?

check the relay, the bulb, the fuse, the wire if connected, the swtich