So yeah, my muffler mount rusted out, I'm trying to find some way to replace it but I'm having difficulties trying to find something to replace it.. it's the hanger part that's attached to the body directly

It seems to be an oddball, I haven't found much of anything like it

Does anyone have any picutres of theirs handy? or just general underbody pictures of their car that it's visible in? or maybe if I'm lucky a picture of the installed kit on bavauto.com. I'm pretty sure that's what I need.. but I see absolutely no way to install it.

Those suck. There are litteraly hundreds of ways to make this better. Do a search, I think I posted some pictures of the mounts I had put on. There are lots of options.