my m3 stay outside all the time. i really want to see her shine. what should i do to hlp her, wash, user cleaner wax, claybar, then wax. is the correct procedure. what kind of products should i use?

Since it stays outside all the time, I suggest getting a good sealant (ie. Zaino, Klasse, etc.)

Wash
Claybar
Wash
Polish w/ abrasive and/or cleaner as necessary
Seal

what he said. forget the cleaner wax. but if you but must, do it after the claybar.