Huge moral dilemma here....

[Preppy]

Is it wrong for someone who is a senior in college to pursue someone who just graduated from high school? Like in all seriousness... :eyecrazy:

[dcardenas]

God damnit, Chris. Enough with all of the morals and shit. Just bone whoever/whenever you want.

[bogdan]

How big is the age difference?
Do you feel comfortable pursuing the person in question, and for what purpose? Summer fling? Long-term relationship?
Is that person going away to school?....far?

Do what makes you fell good, but remember that most of the people that come out of HS usually arent as mature, or looking for the same thing you are.

[Preppy]

I dunno age difference. I dunno much about her. I met her on the metro of all places...i probably wont ever see her again in my life, but we exchanged numbers :dunno.....who knows, maybe i'll drunk dial her :stickoutt

[Juan ///M325]

I'll guess that the age difference is about 4 years? If that's the case, you should have no problems. Remember that women mature faster than men, so her level of maturity may be compatible with yours.


I say date her and have a good time......life is short to worry about the little things :buttrock

[Preppy]

Juan, you're awesome. I need more words like yours and Dave's :)

All of my other friends are trying to be too righteous to me about this. Gawd, I need to find a pic of the actress she reminds me of...

[Preppy]

She looks like her:
http://s90726193.onlinehome.us/LO.jpg

[bogdan]

She looks like her:
http://www.taod.com/gal/albums/Oleynik_Larisa/1Oev8df0ETAnk/lo0095.jpg

like a red X? :stickoutt

[bogdan]

I'll guess that the age difference is about 4 years? If that's the case, you should have no problems. Remember that women mature faster than men, so her level of maturity may be compatible with yours.

I have not met one girl of highschool age that could rectify that.


I say date her and have a good time......life is short to worry about the little things :buttrock

Agreed, have a good time, just keep an open mind. :)

[Preppy]

is it really a red x??????? it works for me :(

[AndrewBall]

If you cant count the age difference on 2 hands shes too young or old.

[Preppy]

She's probably 17, soon the be 18 youngest...19 tops

[AndrewBall]

well if your 28 and under its fine. Like a previous post said shes probablly pretty mature maybe more mature than most guys older than her. Or shes a complete pysco and you will never be able to get rid of her.

[Preppy]

:rofl: I've already had my fill of psychotic bitches :help:

Yeah, I am just 20 right now, 21 in August...so I am thinking there is a 3-4 year difference tops

[Asosrus]

Just think, when you're 75 she'll be a young 71. :nono

[bogdan]

is it really a red x??????? it works for me :(

I cant see chit. :( maybe my computer just sucks.

[bogdan]

:rofl: I've already had my fill of psychotic bitches :help:
so I'm not the only one.:embarrasm


Yeah, I am just 20 right now, 21 in August...so I am thinking there is a 3-4 year difference tops
that young... im 22 in october and going to be a senoir..... in college.

i dont think it should be a problem... just see what kinda "vibes" you get.

[Preppy]

Yeah, I'll give her a call in about two weeks OR this weekend. Who knows. We'll see. She also has my number, maybe she'll call me....:dunno

ARE you serous? the pic STILL isn't working!?!

[AndrewBall]

oh your gonna be 21, you definetly wont be able to get rid of here, especially since she will be younger.

[bogdan]

Yeah, I'll give her a call in about two weeks OR this weekend. Who knows. We'll see. She also has my number, maybe she'll call me....:dunno

ARE you serous? the pic STILL isn't working!?!

workin now... i'd hit it. :D

you should have taken her out to Dim Sum. :stickoutt

I'd call her during the week and see what her schedule is like for the weekend.

[AndrewBall]

you gonna take some oung girl to meet a bunch of older guys? Bad Idea...Very Bad Idea.

[Preppy]

you gonna take some oung girl to meet a bunch of older guys? Bad Idea...Very Bad Idea.
Hahaha :rofl: Nah, everyone at the meet was awesome, but yeah, for the sake of me gaining her trust, that wouldn't be wise.

I can't do anything with her this weekend because I am busy Sat. and InstallFest2004 is Sunday....next weekend sounds good though...

[AndrewBall]

whats installfest 2004? sounds like alot of work...

[Preppy]

just a few guys meeting up at my place and installing anything they need help getting installed. we'll have some beers and burgers on the grill :) just chill and hang out.....and for the neighbors to get UBER pissed because there are 20 BMW's parked in my driveway revving their engines hehe :stickoutt

[dave is cool]

Will there be anyone there that knows how to install control arms, control arm bushings, and tie rods?

[Preppy]

not that i know of :dunno

[bogdan]

Hahaha :rofl: Nah, everyone at the meet was awesome, but yeah, for the sake of me gaining her trust, that wouldn't be wise.
I meant just with her.

I can't do anything with her this weekend because I am busy Sat. and InstallFest2004 is Sunday....next weekend sounds good though.
Good times, wish you the best of luck with her. :alright

[Preppy]

You coming to installfest BogDan???

Yeah, i just remembered, two weekends from now is BimmerfestEast...maybe i'll stop by Frederick on the way to PA

[bogdan]

You coming to installfest BogDan???

Yeah, i just remembered, two weekends from now is BimmerfestEast...maybe i'll stop by Frederick on the way to PA

It's actually Bogdan. :)

But yeah.. I have autox that weekend @ 1pm, I dont know how long the install party runs, but I would make an appearance... white shoepolish on the windows and all. :D

[Preppy]

sweet, my bad, i didn't mean to CAPITALIZE the d....:az:

[AndrewBall]

So if i drop off my box of parts and my spare rear subframe you guys will put it together for me? Then next week you can put it in my car Awesome THANKS GUYS :) :D

[SilverStreak]

Is it wrong for someone who is a senior in college to pursue someone who just graduated from high school? Like in all seriousness... :eyecrazy:
Chris, if she's 18, there's nothing wrong with it (legally speaking...) :D

But seriously, 3-4 yrs age difference is not a huge deal provided you guys are in synch maturity-wise. You can just date her for the summer, see how it goes.

Your gf doesn't have to become your wife someday, just have fun, enjoy yourself, get to know her better, etc...

[Andy]

Give me her number and I will tell you if she is too young. :evil2

j/k

I think you are fine. The only problem is that EVERYON changes after they experience college. It's just part of life. However, you might as well just see. :dunno

[Preppy]

Oh I know about the whole college thing, but i guess i'll have to talk to her a little more, see how she is. I'll call her up this week...just to 'talk' :stickoutt

[turbotrixie]

:rofl: I've already had my fill of psychotic bitches :help:

Yeah, I am just 20 right now, 21 in August...so I am thinking there is a 3-4 year difference tops

OK...so, right off the bat, there will be no bar hopping...unless she has an
i.d., in which case, you'll be able to go to bars till a bouncer catches on and
then you'll be S.O.L....

AND...if things end up working and you guys get into a "relationship", things
could turn out even WORSE! ya see, she'd 19 or so now, but in 3 or so years
when she turns 21, she'll be going to bars...w/ or w/o you...doesn't
matter...the minute she steps foot in a bar for her first legal drink BAM! it'll
hit her...THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA! and just about at that
same moment...you're heart will be broken...you will have invested 3 or so
years of your life in this thing, and now it's gone...just like that.

sorry to be harsh...but i fig'd you might need a devils advocate...

[Andy]

Chris, my advice is....start poking dat shyt ASAP!! :buttrock

:D

[Preppy]

I've already dealt with a 3 year relationship in which my ex-gf ended up cheating on me AND breaking up with me the day before I left Texas to come up here. So dealing with 'heartbreak' isn't uncommon. :(

[Jed]

I think you are fine. The only problem is that EVERYON changes after they experience college. It's just part of life. However, you might as well just see. :dunno

:rolleyes:

Don't listen to Andy. His idea of picking up girls is walking up to them and saying "DIRTY BYTCHES!!!! 2 dolla! 2 dolla!" with this evil smile on his face and rubbing his hands diabolically. :rolleyes:

[turbotrixie]

I've already dealt with a 3 year relationship in which my ex-gf ended up cheating on me AND breaking up with me the day before I left Texas to come up here. So dealing with 'heartbreak' isn't uncommon. :(


well...EVERYONE deals w/ heartbreak at some point in thier existance...i'm
just warning you about how this situation could end up...you never
know, you might end up marrying this girl :dunno

i was mostly just giving you the opposite side of most of the stuff that's
been said already in this post...such as: "I'd hit it"...or..."stick it in her
pooper"...know what i mean?

[schosports]

Chris, for what it's worth, my wife is four years younger than me and neither of us has had any problems with our age differance. If anything she keeps me feeling younger (i'm 33 :( ) She is my best friend, that's what makes the biggest difference.

[vjlax18]

Age differences matter while both people are in school. Fool around for the summer, but don't get too attached. You will be bar hopping soon, and will grow tired of an 18 year old girlfriend - telling it like it is/will be.

[bogdan]

Oh I know about the whole college thing, but i guess i'll have to talk to her a little more, see how she is. I'll call her up this week...just to 'talk' :stickoutt
exactly what I was trying to get at, and if she decides she wants to meet up, just make sure to get a "feel" for the situation. :devillook

[Jed]

Chris, for what it's worth, my wife is four years younger than me and neither of us has had any problems with our age differance. If anything she keeps me feeling younger (i'm 33 :( ) She is my best friend, that's what makes the biggest difference.

I find as you get older though, 4 years isn't the gap it used to be at a younger age. At a younger age-each going into completely new stages in life-she's probably going into college while he is on his way out to the real world. If he goes to grad school, it's still somewhat different. I find now that a 4 year difference is nowhere as severe once both have been in the real world. That's just a general point of view. I would say see how she is and if there is compatibility, but be prepared for any downsides.

That being said...hit dat shyt, Chris!!!! ;) :stickoutt

[turbotrixie]

I find as you get older though, 4 years isn't the gap it used to be at a younger age. ....blah...blah...blah...

http://humanities.byu.edu/elc/student/idioms/idioms/images/hit_nail_on_head.jpg

[Preppy]

Age differences matter while both people are in school. Fool around for the summer, but don't get too attached. You will be bar hopping soon, and will grow tired of an 18 year old girlfriend - telling it like it is/will be.
Yeah that true, bar hopping will be interesting. Who knows, we'll see what happens when i call her up, make some small talk, see how it goes.

Thanks yall, I appreciate the advice from both sides, this is why I love the MD and Surrounding Forum better than the OT forum! :buttrock

[turbotrixie]

Yeah that true, bar hopping will be interesting. Who knows, we'll see what happens when i call her up, make some small talk, see how it goes.

Thanks yall, I appreciate the advice from both sides, this is why I love the MD and Surrounding Forum better than the OT forum! :buttrock

yea...OT blows!!!

how the hell are you supposed to reach "post whore"
status when your posts don't even count?! :dunno

[Preppy]

Yeah, thats why we took away post counts...so people wouldn't post whore stupid replies and shit...

[Andy]

:rolleyes:

Don't listen to Andy. His idea of picking up girls is walking up to them and saying "DIRTY BYTCHES!!!! 2 dolla! 2 dolla!" with this evil smile on his face and rubbing his hands diabolically. :rolleyes:

Damn, I say that out loud?? :confused:

:laugh

I've said it before, and I will say it again; I don't think anyone should go off to college (especially out of state) with a GF back home. I think it interferes with the whole college experience, as well as as your social development. :dunno That's just my opinion.

[Jed]

Yeah, thats why we took away post counts...so people wouldn't post whore stupid replies and shit...

so is that why dave is cool is posts here? :D

[Preppy]

I am guessing so, but I still can't figure out why he posts at all...:rolleyes:


Yeah, I get ya Andy, my exgf breaking up with me before I came up here was definitely a blessing in disguise :)

[Andy]

...so people wouldn't post whore stupid replies and shit...

That doesn't stop me. :D

[turbotrixie]

Yeah, thats why we took away post counts...so people wouldn't post whore stupid replies and shit...


you tryin' to say something? :confused: :stickoutt

[Preppy]

you tryin' to say something? :confused: :stickoutt
I ain't tryin to say nothin ;) :devillook *Looks at own post count* Muahahaha


So when the hell should I call this girl, I wanna talk to her really badly, but I know I shouldn't call her at least until Wednesday night *right?*

Damn I'm pathetic :(

[bogdan]

I ain't tryin to say nothin ;) :devillook *Looks at own post count* Muahahaha


So when the hell should I call this girl, I wanna talk to her really badly, but I know I shouldn't call her at least until Wednesday night *right?*

Damn I'm pathetic :(

call her when it feels right for you, nobody listens to the stupid 2 day rule anyway.

[AlfaEric]

I ain't tryin to say nothin ;) :devillook *Looks at own post count* Muahahaha


So when the hell should I call this girl, I wanna talk to her really badly, but I know I shouldn't call her at least until Wednesday night *right?*

Damn I'm pathetic :(
No, we won't call you pathetic until you try to call her and realize she gave you a fake number. :stickoutt

---Eric

[Preppy]

No, we won't call you pathetic until you try to call her and realize she gave you a fake number. :stickoutt

---Eric
OMG, that would be hilarious actually, it's never happened to me before!!!

I've had girls not call me back, but never a wrong number....that would be interesting...

[megatron]

here's the formula:
(age/2) + 7 and vice versa (age-7)*2 ;)

it actually works pretty well if you work it out :)

[Tchakamon]

Is it wrong for someone who is a senior in college to pursue someone who just graduated from high school? Like in all seriousness... :eyecrazy:

If she's 18 or over, wax it like it was Miyagi's command. Otherwise don't even think about it. The potential downside is greater than you think.

T

[vjlax18]

here's the formula:
(age/2) + 7 and vice versa (age-7)*2 ;)

it actually works pretty well if you work it out :)

STFU, and go hit on the 19 year old BBQ girl! :stickoutt

[Jed]

STFU, and go hit on the 19 year old BBQ girl! :stickoutt

:lol:

Ryan-

Did you ever hook up with her??

[Preppy]

wait how old is Ryan?

[vjlax18]

He's probably not awake yet... stupid left coasters...

[Jed]

wait how old is Ryan?

Ryan is like 45. He likes 'em young. :naughty: :devillook

[Andy]

So when the hell should I call this girl, I wanna talk to her really badly, but I know I shouldn't call her at least until Wednesday night *right?*


You remind me of the guy in the movie Swingers.

:laugh

[Jed]

call her when it feels right for you, nobody listens to the stupid 2 day rule anyway.

I've learned that too. But within reason though-not like calling her RIGHT after you get her number like that dude in Swingers.

If you want to talk to her talk to her, playing too many games gets recockulous.

[Mikey52]

You remind me of the guy in the movie Swingers.

:laugh

Who's the big winner here? :D

[Preppy]

Which guy do I remind you of....the guy who kept calling and leaving the msgs??? Didn't that guy end up with Heather Graham in the end? Yeah thats right....:)

Have fun 'double down'....:)

[Andy]

Chris said that I can hang out with him and be his apprentice. He is going to teach me how to hook up with hot chicks. :offwall

[vjlax18]

Legal "Hot chicks?"

[megatron]

Ryan is like 45. He likes 'em young. :naughty: :devillook

LOL!

for real, 26. so, plugging into the formula we get (26/2)+7 = 20 and (26-7)*2 = 38. there is probably some fudge factor room there... ;) btw, did bbq girl change her hair color again? that 2nd week, she was all complaining of it looking purple. :confused:

try the formula it, it really does work. :D

so let's say preppy is 20. we get 17 and 26. if he's 21, we get 17.5 and 28. maybe there's a lower cap at 18, but for the most part, it works.

[Jed]

btw, did bbq girl change her hair color again? that 2nd week, she was all complaining of it looking purple. :confused:


Dude, if you hooked, you could've seen her real hair color if you know what I mean. And I think you do.

[Preppy]

Dude, if you hooked, you could've seen her real hair color if you know what I mean. And I think you do.
:rofl:

[megatron]

it's light brown with a tint a red in it. but no, jed, no hook. really, no. watch she shows up on this forum.

anyway, back on the topic. preppy, you're both young and uncommitted, so what's the problem? go for it... what could go wrong? and if it goes wrong, so what? that's what life is. :D

[Preppy]

yeah yeah, i am going for it, no worries :)

how about we change it back to this BBQ girl of yours...anymore info???

[rmeen15]

12 and over bend her over

if shes old enough to pee, shes old enough for me

if shes old enough to crawl shes old enough to get into position

if there is grass on the field, play ball!

i like my women how i like my whiskey; 12 years old and mixed up with coke.

phew.... okay i had to get that out of my system, anybody know anymore?

[Jed]

yeah yeah, i am going for it, no worries :)

how about we change it back to this BBQ girl of yours...anymore info???

Hahahahaha! Chris is all of a sudden going to pop up at SCCA events just to go to the BBQ tent.

[Preppy]

not the BBQ tent....the FCUK tent!

[Jed]

:rofl:

[SilverStreak]

Chris pitched a tent in front of this chick? ;)

[BSR423]

if there is grass on the field, play ball!

No grass? Play in the mudd.

[Preppy]

Chris pitched a tent in front of this chick? ;)
naw, no pitching the FCUK tent for her yet...

[AlfaEric]

naw, no pitching the FCUK tent for her yet...
Have you called yet? Did she give you a real number?

---Eric

[turbotrixie]

yea...didja call'er yet?!!?!

[AlfaEric]

yea...didja call'er yet?!!?!
How about now?

---Eric

[turbotrixie]

How about now?

---Eric


now?

[AlfaEric]

now?
How about now?

Did she give you all the numbers?

---Eric

[Preppy]

Yes I called her, it was her number, she was making pancakes for her friend who was in the hospital, and I am calling her back at the end of the week...

[turbotrixie]

How about now?

Did she give you all the numbers?

---Eric


it wasn't for the reject hotline, was it :(

410-347-1488

[turbotrixie]

Yes I called her, it was her number, she was making pancakes for her friend who was in the hospital, and I am calling her back at the end of the week...


was she washing her hair too? :rofl:

sorry...that opportunity was so hard to avoid!!!

[AlfaEric]

Yes I called her, it was her number, she was making pancakes for her friend who was in the hospital, and I am calling her back at the end of the week...

Pancakes at 10PM? :confused:

---Eric

[AlfaEric]

was she washing her hair too? :rofl:

sorry...that opportunity was so hard to avoid!!!
:lol:

---Eric

[megatron]

[mitch hedberg] so i asked the girl at the hotel desk for her number. she gave it to me. it was really easy to remember. it was zero. [/mitch hedberg]

[Jed]

That's cool Chris. At least you got the number and called her. Some dudes talk a big game but can't even get a number much less talk to a girl. On to the next one! :D