ok .. awhile ago i took out my drivers seat and i disconnected the seat heater .. the 3 wires underneath .. everything was working before .. when i put the seat back in .. the driver side doesnt work .. passenger side works perfectly .. anything im overlooking .. i kept swapping the wires .. maybe i connected them wrong .. but i doubt it .. anything else ??

I think you connected them wrong. The heated seats have 2 wire connectors underneath your seat. Each of those connectors (4 pin capacity), in turn, has only 2 wires each. One connector for the cushion heater, the other connector for the seatback heater.

Driver's cushion heater- Pin 1 is Brown, Pin 2 is White/Red
Driver's seatback heater- Pin 1 is Brown, Pin 2 is White/Green